Music and Gender

Hey y'all! I have been looking forward to discussing music and gender. I have A LOT to say about this topic so get ready. First off, society has shown that girls specifically need to listen to "girly" music. What does that even mean? To me, gender and music have nothing to do with each other. Guys can listen to whatever genre they want to and women can as well. I would just like to say "screw society" before I really get into this blog.

 

When I was little, I was very much into rock and heavy metal (some rap too). I was never into what other girls were doing and I was literally the epitome of a tomboy. I was judged for being into really dark music when I should have been 100% into boy bands like all of the other girls my age. Now that I'm older, I have realized that people actually think gender and music are closely related which makes no sense. Society views women as overly sensitive so we are supposed to listen to slow, sad songs. I've noticed that a lot of older folks are shocked when I tell them what kind of music I listen to. They would be even more shocked to know that I have attended several metal concerts and taught myself to scream because girls aren't supposed to do things like that. Girls are just supposed to sing and look pretty which I absolutely HATE!

I really have some beef with the music industry because if you look up "top ten metal bands" on Google, you will only see male-fronted bands. Let me just put y'all on a female-fronted band real quick. I would also encourage you to watch to this video as well. It won't let me insert the video for some reason so here is a link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SQNtGoM3FVU

Let's compare this to one of my favorite bands, a male-fronted group called Slipknot. 

 In my opinion, Jinjer should have just as much recognition as Slipknot. Most people don't go out of their way to listen to female-fronted metal bands because the vocals are a little strange. Once you find the right band, it becomes clear that your gender does not dictate whether you can make good metal music or not. Another great female-fronted metal band is Arch Enemy. I could ramble on for hours about how gender has absolutely nothing to do with what kind of music you can play or listen to, but it would be a million words long. 

If the music makes you happy, you shouldn't let society's weird view get in your way. Go out and scream to heavy metal or vibe to some rap music, girl!

Have a great weekend and feel free to drop a comment!